| Sexual Abuse Or Other Trauma Is A Major Cause Of Sex, Love, Romance Addiction & Co-Sex Addiction In Men & Women |
Many men & women in recovery for sex, love, romance addiction or co-sex addiction do not recall, recollect or remember suffering any type of trauma, sex abuse, molestation, rape or incest in their past lives.
something bad in the form of some type of trauma had in fact happened to them which set them up to to experience these types of severe life damaging personal problems. Most counselors or therapist would more than likely agree with this theory. For some past life trauma victims dissociation which is now often called The Split or leaving your body is responsible for the lack of memories of past life abuse events. Another reason could be what is called displacement or making their trauma or abuse into something else. Sexual compulsivity also obscures victimization which could be another reason why some addicts do not recall or recollect past life trauma or sex abuse. Any type of overt or covert trauma or abuse can cause people to become addicted to sex, love, romance or become co-sexually addicted. The abuse or trauma does not have to be overt or covert sexual abuse, molestation, rape or incest.
happens to people who were sexually abused or suffered incest as children & how that set them up to become sex, love, romance addicts or co-sex addicts later on in life without evening knowing that due to their denial & delusion & other defense mechanisms which are very powerful over them. Clearly, not all sex, love, romance addicts or co-sex addicts suffered any type of trauma or abuse in their past lives. This could be because someone in past generations had suffered trauma or sexual abuse which was kept a close guarded family secret & never dealt with in that generation. What this means is that someone in that family will re-enact that abuse in future generations even though the abuse they are re-enacting never happened to them personally. In this case The Family Secrets or Sins Of The Fathers is responsible for their addiction to sex, love, romance or co-sex addiction according to professionals who diagnose & treat these types of personal & family problems. Not easy to understand to say the very least. Consult with professionals. If you feel that you may have suffered sexual abuse, rape, molestation or incest as a very young child, teenager or young adult rest assured that you are not alone. It is estimated that one out of four children in America boys & girls alike become sexually abused, raped or molested by someone before they reach the age of eighteen & 80% of them know who their violator was. If the abuse was acted out on them by a family member it is called incest which is the most severe type of sexual abuse according to John Bradshaw if you can even compare these types of things as all of them are as about as bad as abuse can get for a child, teenager or young person. If this is the case with you we recommend that you call a professional counselor or therapist for expert diagnosis, advice & treatment as sexual abuse, molestation, rape or incest is very serious & not something any twelve step recovery program or it's recovering members are qualified to deal with let alone advise you on. They can help you stop acting out in sex, love, romance & co-sex addiction by sharing their experience strength & hope but they make it real clear they do not offer or practice therapy. Professional counseling & therapy is absolutely necessary for all sexual abuse, rape, molestation or incest victims or victims of other types of life damaging trauma or abuse in the beginning of the recovery process for sex, love, romance addiction or co-sex addiction. Researchers estimate that 67% of all people men & women alike who participate in 12 Step Recovery Programs for alcoholism, drug addiction, other types of addictions or codependency are more than likely past life overt or covert abuse or trauma victims including rape, sexual abuse, incest or molestation. Sex, Love or Romance Addiction are said to be the most powerful addictions of them all. They are always the very last addictions people in recovery for other problems such as codependency, alcoholism or drug addiction self identify in themselves. Recovery work for these types of personal problems is difficult to say the very least but many past life abuse victims who develop sex, love, romance addiction or co-sex addiction do improve & recover if they make their personal recovery a number one priority in their lives & work their recovery program diligently.
could ever be done to a child. He says that type of abuse affects them adversely for every day of the rest of their lives & they may as well have just taken a gun & shot them. That is exactly why sex, love, romance addiction or co-sex addiction are not now or ever will be moral issues. Not in the minds of professionals who know better or the many recovering addicts who have achieved personal recovery. This type of abuse is never the fault of the victim ( child ) period. People recovering from sex, love, romance addiction or co-sex addiction must get it that these types of personal problems are not about them but what happened to them through no fault of their own period. |
| Hush I pray you! What if this friend happen to be-God? God teaches us to help each other so, Lending our minds out ( Browning ). |
| Past life overt or covert trauma or sexual abuse often causes propensity to further victimization in adulthood. |
| All recovering alcoholics, drug addicts, sex, love & romance addicts, co-sex addicts & other types of addicts must get it that their problems are not about them but what had happened to them in their past life. John Bradshaw |