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    Recovering sex, love or romance addicts must self identify their very own compulsive addictive bottom line behaviors.

    Bottom line sexual acting out behaviors are the specific ways a sex, love, romance or co-sex addict acts out.

    No two addicts are alike in respect to bottom line behaviors as each individual addict has different preferences.

    Basically the sex addict comes on, the love addict hangs on & the romance addict always moves on.

    Active untreated sexually addicted people act out sexually utilizing their very own personal bottom line behaviors.

    They do this when triggered to lesson their pain or augment their pleasure.

    The Safe Formula

    Triggers: Certain people, images, objects, places, thoughts, feelings, situations, activities or things that cause sex,
    love & romance addicts to unconsciously-semi consciously go into a trance like state of being & begin to act out in
    their addiction utilizing their very own preferred personal bottom line behaviors. Some addicts consider being alone
    with a computer or smart phone, unstructured time, isolation or H.A.L.T. Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired triggers.
    Trigger recognition & avoidance at any & all cost is vitally important in the beginning of the recovery process.

    General Bottom Line Behaviors:





    Sly Sleaze
    Inappropriate Sexual Innuendos/Comments

    Unsafe Or Unprotected Sex

    Voyeurism
    Looking at, staring at, observing or watching people you are attracted to whether they are clothed or not.
    Staring at pornography on a computer screen is a form of Voyeurism & so is channel flipping TV for sexual content.
    Trying to see something you are not supposed to see by purposely looking down women's blouses or up their skirts
    with or without use of photography or video cameras or other creative spying devices such as mirrors.
    Secretly watching or observing other people with or without use of binoculars or telescopes ( Window Peeping ).
    Secretly photographing or video taping people undressing or having sex in your own home or other places.

    Other Undesirable Behaviors: secrecy, hiding, covering up, sneaking, lying, dishonesty, rationalization,
    deception, justification & entitlement often run with sex, love & romance addiction or co-sex addiction.

    Many recovering sex addicts also consider these types of character defects or short comings bottom line behavior.

    Sex, love & romance addicts always leave a trail of destruction behind them.




















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